Just Yesterday

I remember it like it was yesterday. Chad and I walked into a dimly lit hospital room. I was wearing leggings and rain-boots. I had on a teal sweatshirt. The nurse gave me a gown and told me to change before she came back with my medication. A painful, long, and exhausting 40+ hours later she was laid on my chest after a labor than ended in a cesarean.

We bonded the minute our eyes met. I had a hard time letting anyone else hold her, because I needed to feel the warmth and weight of her body on my chest. I had waited years for that feeling. It’s hard for me to imagine my life without her. It’s hard for me to remember what life was like before her.

I spent the first three years of her life at work. We saw each other in the evenings for a few hours, but I still feel like I missed so much of her life. She grew and learned a lot in those short three years. She’ll be four in October. Four years goes by faster than you know when you’re trying to hold on to the very thing that God created you to do. It’s like she slips away from me a little more each morning when the sun comes up. One day older. One day closer to being the person God created her to be.

It’s hard to believe that my little girl is big enough to carry a backpack, that she can recognize her name on her cubby and mailbox, or tell you her address or phone number, but she can. And she can write her name and count well past 20. She can remember things we said or did a year ago, she loves reading and singing and dancing. She can tell you all about the solar system and Moana. It’s hard for me to remember that, although I’d like to believe it, she wasn’t born yesterday. She’s far from that 7lb 8oz baby they laid in my arms.

On Monday, Chad and I walked into a brightly lit pre-school with our daughter, our son also in tow. Things have changed, but it felt a little bit familiar. We were about to start a new journey together just like we did in October of 2014. I’m proud of us. I’m proud of her.


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